by Kendra Cunov | May 1, 2026 | Relationships, Source & Spirituality
I am not here to teach you The Way. Nor am I here to teach you My Way. I’m here to support you in finding Your Way. And I am here to walk with you on the path of Your Way. This approach isn’t for everyone. Many people want a coach who will tell them The Right...
by Kendra Cunov | May 1, 2026 | Life Advice
One of my favorite old-school Authentic Relating prompts is ‘If you really knew me, you’d know…’ I’ve had amazing conversations with complete strangers based on this prompt. I’ve learned new things about longtime friends & lovers using this prompt. I’ve discovered...
by Kendra Cunov | May 1, 2026 | Pleasure, Purpose, Power
Many people I work with are afraid of their own power. They “play small” and limit themselves in order to satisfy other people; they’re afraid of being too much, or too powerful for the people around them. When we do this, we make our power about the other...
by Kendra Cunov | May 1, 2026 | Life Advice, Source & Spirituality
I was born at home at the San Francisco Zen Center, and moved to the Tassajara Zen Mountain Center monastery, deep in the Ventana wilderness, when I was 6 months old. I lived at Tassajara with my mom until I was 5 years old & within Zen Center,...
by Kendra Cunov | Apr 22, 2026 | Relationships
Don’t let anyone tell you what the right form of relating or relationship is for you. How you want to relate, and the form you want your relationships to take is between you & the people you are in relationship with. Some will tell you polyamory is The Only...
by Kendra Cunov | Jul 18, 2025 | Pleasure, Purpose, Power
We’ve been sold a story about pleasure. That it’s indulgent.That it’s dangerous.That it’s earned, gendered, selfish, or shameful. But what if none of that is true? What if pleasure is not a reward for good behavior—but a way back to our wholeness?What if it’s not a...
by Kendra Cunov | Oct 19, 2023 | Boundaries, Relationships
So many of the people I talk to these days feel lost, overwhelmed, confused…. And, truly, we are living through some wild times right now. Not only is there a lot that’s actually going on & a lot that needs to be addressed, but there is just plain A LOT of...
by Kendra Cunov | Sep 21, 2023 | Life Advice
Today (tonight, or tomorrow — depending on where you live & who you ask) is the Equinox, so get ready to see a bajillion posts about ‘balance’. Here is the lie: That balance is something you ‘achieve’. Built from this lie: That balance is static. If you...
by Kendra Cunov | Aug 18, 2023 | Source & Spirituality
I’m an only child, raised by a single mom. I spent the first 11 years of my life without electricity & essentially in the wilderness. Although the first 4 were also within a small community, my being was attuned at a very young age to quiet, to the sounds of...
by Kendra Cunov | Dec 14, 2022 | No Man Diet
As much as I want to tell you how amazing The No Man Diet is (which it is), and how incredible the community of women is (which they are), it is equally important to be clear about how to know if it’s not right for you (at least right now). These are the questions...
