by Kendra Cunov | Apr 20, 2021 | Boundaries, Life Advice, Relationships
Whether we are willing to acknowledge them or not, boundaries exist. They are always there, and exist everywhere in life – for all people (and even more-than-human beings!). Wolves leave their scent markings to create defining lines between different pack...
by Kendra Cunov | Apr 19, 2021 | Fierce Grace, Life Advice, Pleasure, Purpose, Power, Source & Spirituality
All change begins with one thing — getting in right relationship with exactly where we are right now. If you find yourself getting into arguments in your head about how things could or should be different, don’t worry, you’re not the only one. This might be something...
by Kendra Cunov | Apr 19, 2021 | Life Advice, No Man Diet, Relationships
Very few people are truly toxic. To understand how to actually change ‘toxic’ patterns, we must first understand a number of very nuanced layers. One layer is that we have a cultural legacy of staying in relationships no matter how bad they get. Another is that I’m...
by Kendra Cunov | Mar 2, 2021 | Fierce Grace, Life Advice, Pleasure, Purpose, Power, Source & Spirituality
I constantly hear people talking about how they deserve things. This could be “a partner who does X”, “a certain amount of money”, or “a glass of wine in the evenings”. What I’ve noticed is that, almost always, the part that...
by Kendra Cunov | Feb 11, 2021 | Life Advice, Relationships
The terms masculine and feminine are often used as excuses in relationships. Women will claim that their partner needs to be “more masculine” in order for them to be “in their feminine”. Or, men will claim that they “can’t be in their masculine” because she’s in...
by Kendra Cunov | Jan 6, 2021 | Fierce Grace, Life Advice
While it may be common to fuse the terms female and feminine together & many languages make it hard not to, I believe this does a huge disservice to us all. There is so much more available in the human experience when we are able to differentiate feminine as...
by Kendra Cunov | Jan 6, 2021 | Life Advice, Pleasure, Purpose, Power
As we near the end of 2020, I’m noticing many people entering into 2021 hoping to make the same kind of “new year, new me” resolutions & shifts that are so common at the end of each year. Understandably, it’s been a year of immense change, confusion, and...
by Kendra Cunov | Dec 22, 2020 | Life Advice, Pleasure, Purpose, Power
There’s a widespread and often unconscious belief that pleasure is solely connected to the act of sex, but the reality is there are SO many arenas to experience pleasure outside the realm of sexuality. In relationships, we tend to abdicate our pleasure to sexual...
by Kendra Cunov | Dec 22, 2020 | Life Advice, Pleasure, Purpose, Power
We live in a culture that has led us to believe that what is pleasurable is sinful, wrong, or cannot be trusted. As a result, we don’t spend a lot of time talking about pleasure, which truly does a large disservice to all of us. We are taught to believe pleasure is...
by Kendra Cunov | Dec 8, 2020 | Fierce Grace, Life Advice
“As a leader, one must be able to follow what life is calling for, beyond our preference and beyond our plan.” — Kendra Cunov While it is important to have some kind of plan or direction as a leader, one of the common places I see people get stuck is they imagine they...