Embrace & embody the full spectrum of what it means to walk through the world as a woman – in every area of your life

Join a global web of women devoted to embodied wholeness and ‘doing sisterhood differently’

I am a woman who used to believe I didn’t belong in groups of women.

I never felt ‘feminine enough.’ But, at the same time, I was scared of being ‘too feminine’ & not being taken seriously. I laughed too loud, I talked too much, I ate all the wrong foods, and putting on lipstick gave me panic attacks!  

For years, I felt caught in a tug-of-war…

  • I craved attention, and was afraid of attention because it didn’t feel safe.
  • I knew I had big things to offer the world, and felt scared that others might judge me for my grand ambitions.
  • I loved the quiet, simple life AND the wild all-night underground dance scene in San Francisco.  
  • Was I ‘masculine’ or ‘feminine’?  
  • Was I too purpose-driven, or not enough?  
  • Should I be self-reliant or ask for support? 

I wanted all of it, but I thought I had to choose.

I lived too many years thinking I was the wrong kind of person and the wrong kind of woman.

And over the past 20 years, I’ve worked with countless women who’ve been held back by some version of these same unconscious beliefs – that only certain parts of you are acceptable in order to fit in – which leads to never feeling like you fully belong anywhere.

“The Collective is a rare opportunity to work both with an exceptional teacher and be part of a web of women who are committed to learning, growth, love and kindness.

A place where everyone can share exactly who they are, what they need, and where they struggle and be supported, held and guided as needed.

An impeccably facilitated group to explore and deepen our own growth and learnings about how we are in relationship with ourselves, our partners and the world.

A place not to fix what’s wrong, but to share in the idea of what’s possible.”

“There are many systems built against us as women, but our lives don’t need to be determined by the internal and external circumstances these systems create.”

— Kendra Cunov

I believe there is no greater imperative on the planet right now than for women to truly come alive — together.

…which is why I created The Collective.

Every woman has to be part of something like The Collective … A sacred and safe space for sisterhood, where there is space for all our wildness and all of our wisdom that lies within our bodies. Kendra facilitates magnificently – in her teachings, and also by sharing her life with us — how to navigate all of our currents.”

The Collective is a global community of women committed to living our lives powerfully, lifting each other up, and supporting every woman to live a wildly flourishing life.

The Collective is a home and a community that you deeply yearn for and which you didn’t know you wanted/needed in your life. It is the type of community of women that feels rare, the type of community that honors and begs for your whole self, now, and as you evolve and change.

I would say that the women in the Collective (including Kendra) offer through their own experiences so much learning and inquiry into my own experience, that I don’t know how I got this far without a community like this.

It feels like the thing that has been missing all of my life, these types of relationships with other women.”

“Thank you for curating this community and holding the vision for a space that feels like the truth of how women can and do show up for each other. It is something that I feel has been culturally lacking in my life and which feels deeply nourishing to me.”

The Collective is my response to my life’s calling to support women in creating lives that are filled with meaning — even (or perhaps especially) in the midst of challenging or seemingly mundane experiences.
The container is broad, but deep, because it gives us the potential to work with everything

We can’t predict big life experiences, or the support we will want & need between those big life events. 

One woman might be creating the partnership of her dreams and another might be going through the death of a parent, while many are simply in the midst of daily life that already takes so much from us.

“I can’t tell you how much I felt caught by the women in The Collective during one of the hardest periods of my life. That is priceless. And now I have some of the closest friendships with women I’ve ever had that nourish me in all the ways I long to be nourished in friendship.” -AC

In The Collective…

You can never be too big, too tender, too messy, or too powerful.

The Collective is unlike any other community of women you’ve ever experienced.

In many places, you ‘belong’ if you wear the right clothes or talk the right way. Basically, if you are the same as everyone else.

But The Collective isn’t about fitting in.
The Collective is a place where you BELONG.

The Collective is a place where you can talk about anything.
A place to whine, vent, celebrate, cry, feel joy, be needy.
A place to celebrate successes, wins, and courageous risks.
A place to lean into aspects of yourself you didn’t know existed.
A place to birth new ideas, ways of being, to live into your full potential.

The Collective is a place that holds all of who you are.

“It’s a web of women like you’ve never met before. I have always been uncomfortable, uneasy, and unsure of women’s groups before. The Collective has changed that for me.”

“One of the best parts of The Collective is continually allowing myself to be among the women, not trying to ‘fit in’…”

“There is space for showing up however you are… I love the way all the women respect and honor each other so deeply. I feel fully supported by and in this community.”

What makes The Collective different from other coaching programs?

In many group coaching programs, everyone is working on similar things. It might be a particular kind of relationship, or growing your business, or practicing being more visible and sharing your voice.

You join a program… and then life happens.

You and your partner move across the country for a new opportunity. Or you are faced with a challenging medical situation. Family ‘drama’ rears its head. 

It can feel awkward to talk about what’s going on in your personal life. Or you might feel pressured to “keep up” with everyone else, even though that’s not what you need right now.

Your journey within The Collective is deeply personal and tailored to YOU.

You can never be ‘behind.’ You never need to ‘catch up.’

Unlike other coaching programs, The Collective is a place to bring all of who you are — no matter what you’re going through or what you’re working on.

In The Collective we consciously, compassionately, and creatively embrace & embody the full spectrum of what it means to walk through the world as a woman – in every area of your life:

Relationship & Intimacy

Self-Love

Work, Business & Career

Sexuality

Pleasure, Purpose, & Power

Feminine Expression & Masculine Structure

Family

Spirituality

Authentic Living

In The Collective you will:

  • Learn how to shift from competition to collaboration with other women.
  • Receive regular coaching, support & practices tailored to you & your life.
  • Enter into a space to reveal & be witnessed — with deep & non-judgmental listening — as well as to witness other women in their own powerful process.
  • Gain practical tools to apply immediately, that will shift how you experience your life — from that of a burden into a sacred & heart-felt expression.
  • Learn how deeply normal, similar & human all of us women are — across age, race & cultural differences.
You don’t have to do this alone. 

There’s an African Proverb that says, “If you want to go fast go alone, if you want to go far go together,” and I would add, “if you want to go deep, go together.”

So what do members of The Collective get?

  • 2 live group calls with Kendra each month. Dive deep into how the monthly themes apply to your specific life experience, receive live coaching from Kendra, and learn from others on these calls.
  • Lunar Cycle reflection tools for powerful growth, including New & Full Moon practices to connect you to our natural cycles and seasonal rhythms.
  • Weekly Guided Inquiry. Stay grounded with weekly guided inquiry prompts.
  • A wise council of women to check in with. Immerse yourself inside our online community forum, with other women dedicated to transforming their lives from the inside out by connecting, sharing, and learning from the experiences of others.
  • Intention-Setting and Completion Homework to set you up for success and support your full integration of the transformations you experience.
  • Kendra’s complete Relationship by Design Fundamentals program (beginning October 10, 2022). You’ll learn the fundamental building blocks that are essential to create thriving, fulfilling relationships within your family, workplace, friendships and intimate life. This program is now only available as part of The Collective.
  • Kendra’s complete Pleasure.Purpose.Power program (beginning Spring 2023). This program is 20 years of training, research, study, teaching, and personal practice distilled down to 12 weeks of the essential lessons and practices you need to walk as a whole woman in the modern world. This program is now only available as part of The Collective.
  • A Library of Resources, Teaching, and Practices. Get access to Kendra’s favorite books, audios, and downloads from the resource library, along with her best teachings and practices in both video and blog format. These include practices for self-awareness, energetic clarity, embodied expression, as well as teachings from past events, and more!
“The Collective is a non-traditional way to learn about yourself. There is a lot of personal exploration, but I’ve found parts of me I didn’t know existed amongst the other women. The calls with Kendra are a breath of fresh air for me.”

  • Mentorship from long-term students & dedicated practitioners.
  • Member Site. A virtual hub that holds all call recordings, teachings, practice videos and resources for easy access anytime.
  • Private Podcast Feed. Easily listen to call recordings while you’re on-the-go. New “episodes” are automatically available right inside your favorite podcast app, like Apple Podcasts or Google Podcasts.
  • Bonus content including tools, practices and teachings created specifically for YOU. Kendra will be with you every step of the journey, responding regularly in the Community Forum & creating content in response to your specific & unique inquiries throughout the process.
“{As a multi-year member,} what has me stay is the genuine-ness of the women. I am incredibly interested in how they navigate their lives, how we support each other, and the wisdom of the women here is profound! It feels like having access to a real-time, live ‘How To Be a Woman’ users manual.” – JL

Your journey in The Collective begins with…

Create thriving, fulfilling relationships in all areas of your life

The path of designing your relationships from true desire is not for the faint of heart, but it is the most rewarding and fulfilling path I know.

My ex-husband and I got married because we loved each other, were running a business together and wanted to have a family together.  Marriage seemed like the logical way to go about that, and nowhere did we see models of people mutually supporting each other in these ways, without being married. At the time we were ironically building a business around creating authentic relationships. Our tagline was ‘no cookie-cutter molds’, and it still didn’t occur to us that there was any other way, which to me only illuminates how deeply ingrained these ideas are.

While I will always be grateful for the business and family we did create, I wish we had known a way to step outside of these prescribed norms, and ask ourselves if there was a better way for us to love each other; if we could have a family and support each other without getting married. We could have saved a lot of heartbreak.

When my first child was one, I risked everything — my career, my community, and a life that looked like everything I’d ever wanted on paper — to follow my truth.  It took all my inner trust to let go of the relationships that no longer nourished me & to develop relationships that did.  What has come from this is a group of friends I know I can count on. I only work with people I actually want to spend time around; and career opportunities have appeared that I never would have had, if I hadn’t been willing to risk being vulnerable in order to create the kinds of professional relationships that really matter to me.

Then when I became pregnant with my second child, I watched my partner struggle with similar ideas — he thought he either had to leave, or marry me. Nothing in his life had ever shown him there could be any other option. He would try to make us a traditional couple and family, but something deep in his soul wouldn’t let him pretend, so he would leave for a time and then come back to try again. Over time, we found our relationship path — what was right for usUltimately we bought houses next door to each other, and now live as lovers, co-parents and partners in life.  We are not only happier within ourselves, but also better parents and better partners to each other through forging our own path, rather than ‘settling’ or giving in to what seemed to be expected of us.

There are a myriad of other examples around my career path, as well as how I have created my community, and circle of friends and colleagues, all of which have taken me off the beaten path and been deemed unconventional by many. The path of designing your relationships from true desire is not for the faint of heart, but it is the most rewarding and fulfilling path I know.

Here’s what we’ll cover in Relationship By Design Fundamentals

Module 1:  Authenticity 

Authenticity is an overused term, and an under-practiced skill. Most of us unconsciously hide and modify parts of ourselves because we’re afraid they won’t be accepted or welcomed by others.  In order to truly be in relationship with another, or others, we must first be willing to truly be ourselves. Over the last 20 years of teaching I’ve heard many people express some version of the sentiment: “I can’t be myself here” or “I can’t be all of myself with that person/those kinds of people”.  Until we are willing to reveal ourselves, we will never know if that’s true and the depth of our relationships will be limited. In this module, we’ll work with the mind, body, and nervous system to discover and shift the blocks we have created in order to share ourselves authentically in all areas of our lives.

Module 2:  Tell Me What You Really, REALLY Want

Most people think they know what they want, but what we want is often based on what we think we can have. Our truest wants, needs and desires come from and live in the body. In order to discover these truths in ourselves, we must be in honest connection with our bodily experience. When we aren’t in touch with our deepest truths, what we bring to the table in our relationships is often not what we really want, and only leads to more dissatisfaction. During this module we’ll be unpacking all the layers involved, including where our assumptions come from and why we have them. We’ll learn practices and tools to know, stay in touch with, and express what we really want, moment to moment.

Module 3:  Getting and Staying Curious

As soon as we stop being curious, our relationships are as good as dead. Humans habitually lose curiosity in two main places—when they’re entering a new relationship or dynamic where it’s human nature to attempt to organize and classify based on available data, and when they’ve been in a relationship a long time and have become habituated about what to expect. Genuine curiosity is essential in creating real, deep, flourishing and nourishing relationships. In this module you’ll discover your genuine curiosity – for yourself and your own desires, as well as within your relationships. This module includes exercises and language for engaging with curiosity whether you’re meeting someone new, or in conversation with someone you’ve known for decades. You’ll also learn practices and tools for accessing curiosity in any moment, or when you feel ‘triggered’.

Module 4:  Generosity is Queen

When we are only focused on ourselves and getting what we want, we cease to be in a real relationship.  The same is true for acting from a tit-for-tat mentality.  True negotiation in relationships, that takes all parties into account, requires a level of generosity that very few of us are used to. No matter how much you love someone, there will come a moment in your relationship where you are mad or hurt or tired or resentful, and these are the pivotal moments in your relationship where generosity comes into play. It’s easy to give when you feel good, when you want to, and when what is being asked of you is easy. It’s the moments when it’s challenging that really count. Generosity is the foundation of all of my teaching, and I believe if you truly embrace the practice of generosity, every relationship in your life will be transformed. In this module you’ll learn what blocks your generosity within relationships and how to move through it along with what it means to offer someone love in the way they want to be loved and why it matters. 
“There are years worth of learning & practice embedded within {Relationship By Design Fundamentals}. The value will go on for a lifetime.”

“{Relationship By Design Fundamentals} sparked curiosity and possibility in my marriage that I was not sure was available, and offered opportunity for deeper connection and more playfulness and fun.” — RH

“{Relationship By Design Fundamentals} allows for a beautiful, gentle but profound shift in perspective. You will find growth at your own pace led by a warm, compassionate facilitator with a unique perspective on relating. I think the program’s magic lies in a permissiveness that shows awareness that growth is not a straight line but an experience with peaks and valleys. It’s a very comfortable, non-competitive program that will make you feel safe while still emboldening you to explore your edges.”

“{Relationship By Design Fundamentals} is the place where your relationships with others points you back to the relationship you have with yourself.” 

Tell me more about what a year inside the Collective looks like…

 You can never be ‘behind.’ You never need to ‘catch up.’ And there is no one ‘right’ way to engage in The Collective.

That said, we do have a gentle seasonal arc for the content and curriculum of The Collective. While we may be exploring specific curriculum on a call, members are always welcome to come to all calls and can bring whatever questions and inquiries are most relevant in your life. (Even if you might think it’s “off topic”.)

In the Fall, we explore the Relationship By Design Fundamentals curriculum. This spans most of October, November, and December.

Then, in Winter, we have a period of integration. The themes for January, February, and March tend to organically emerge based on the needs of the Collective.

Next, in the Spring, we explore the Pleasure. Purpose. Power. curriculum. This spans from late April until early July.

For the Summer, we have another season of integration. Again, the themes and topics for July through September tend to organically emerge.

And then the cycle begins again.

Plus, you can always “choose your own adventure” and explore past topics and teachings inside our growing archive.

 

What are some of the themes you’ve covered during “Integration”?

  • Authentic Radiance
  • Bad Reputation
  • Balance and Alignment
  • Belonging
  • Boundaries and Clarity
  • Boundaries and Desire
  • Breaking Spells
  • Come Home to Go Big
  • Container
  • Foundation and Stability
  • Planting Seeds and Intentions
  • (Re)Birth
  • Setting Intention – Through
  • Embodied Desire & Devotion
  • Stepping Powerfully Into the New Year
  • Tending with Tenderness
  • The Power of The Spider Queen
  • The Wisdom of Your Body
  • Wholeness and Fullness

(You’ll have access to all of these as soon as you join!)

How do I know if The Collective is right for me?

You may want a place like The Collective in your life if…

  • You ‘hold’ so much for the people in your life, but don’t receive the ‘holding’ you need. You are ready to not have to do it all alone.
  • You may have felt like you didn’t fit in with other groups of women, but you’re ready to shift that. You want to cultivate deeper connections.
  • You believe your body holds wisdom even if you’re not sure how to access it (yet).
  • You have a wild (and possibly ‘unreasonable’) vision for your life and the world, and are ready to be fully supported in that vision.
  • You believe in honoring your natural cycles and seasonal rhythms (even if you haven’t always know how to).
  • You want to feel fully expressed as a woman and embody your feminine expression, but you’re not quite sure how.
  • You don’t know what your purpose is, you fear you might not have one, or you’re afraid to fully step into it because of the judgments of others or the changes it might require you to make in your life.
  • You want to feel empowered — to set boundaries, tap into your truth, and make confident decisions about your life.
  • You want to know how to feel true pleasure in your body.
  • Your life feels like it’s missing the vibrancy you deeply desire, and you’re not sure what’s blocking it. You want to feel on fire for life!
  • You welcome diversity, stand for equality and care about kindness. 
  • You’re ready & willing to let go of being ‘good’ in order to be YOU.

The Collective is a place for all womxn-identified humans, including transgender, from all walks of life.

We have had women in their 20s & in their 70s. Gay, straight & bi women. Married women. Single women. And women in ‘non-traditional’ relationships.

Women from all over the USA, as well as women from Europe, South America & Australia.

There are many mothers in The Collective, and women who have no desire to become mothers.

I so love the safe, trusting, loving way the Collective is held and supported. It’s done impeccably and I’m so grateful. The communication is excellent and timely, we know when group calls are, and I’m so thankful for all the feedback and comments from Kendra and others when I post.”

What I love most about The Collective is how everyone is held so lovingly in their experience and also in their power.  I feel fully supported by and in this community.

“Kendra holds a space like no other. There’s no bullshit. There’s no power trip. There’s no one taking up “too much” space. And the teachings are beautiful and subtle and deeply powerful.” – JL

This space not only accepts, but welcomes, invites & celebrates all of you!!

More Benefits Of Joining The Collective

  • Connection with a global community of deep, powerful, devoted (as well as sassy, sexy & playful) women (*ahem* just like YOU)
  • Private classes with guest teachers: Women experts in their field
  • Regular live coaching with Kendra Cunov (founder of The Collective & The Fierce Grace Incubator) at a fraction of the cost
  • New monthly teachings for every aspect of your life: Relationship, Family, Spirituality, Boundaries, Sexuality, Self-Love…
  • Specific tools for integrating these teachings into your life
  • In the words of one member: “A wise council of women to check in with whenever I need it.”
  • Embodied practices that really work
  • Personal coaching from Kendra within the Community Forum
  • A space that truly welcomes & holds ALL of you 
  • More joy, tenderness & down-to-earth sharing than you even knew to want!
  • An added bonus:  When you join, you don’t have to wait until the next call to dive in! You get instant access to classes ranging from ‘Get In Right Relationship With Your Money’ to ‘Access The Wisdom of Your Body’ to ‘Create Your (Next) Year From the Ground of Devotion”, as well as replays of sessions taught by world-class guest teachers, and more!
“My top three benefits from being part of The Collective are: 1) More time with Kendra and her deep deep generous love and teachings. 2) Learning how to ask for what I need (asking specifically for what kind of support or feedback). 3) Learning how to open up and share how I’m feeling / doing with the group (very scary for me but so rewarding when I do). 4) A sense of love and support for any challenges (or successes) I am experiencing. (Ok, that’s four…!)

What if I’m ‘not a group person’?

Here’s the thing — I’ve been working with groups for 20 years, and I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt that our deepest transformation occurs in community.  I also know that I could talk ‘til the cows come home about the power of community & it might all still go in one ear & out the other, so here is what the actual members of The Collective had to say:
“(Before I joined The Collective) I was scared about whether I fit with a community of women. I was scared that I was too weird and my experiences were too much and that I would be ignored. I worried that I was not advanced enough in my healing/self awareness journey to participate. I worried I would be ‘told’ something I wasn’t willing to hear or take action on. Fuck, it took me more than two years of stalking Kendra’s work and longing to engage more deeply to actually build the courage to dive in (first with Beyond Boundaries, then Relationship by Design, then the Collective).

What put my concerns to rest were a few things — one is that I understand and feel my energy in relation to things and everything about it screamed “YES!!!!!”, even through the fear. I knew it was exactly the right thing for me.

Then when I got started in the Collective, I wasn’t pushed to show up in any specific way, I watched and waited, feeling all the shit that was coming up and kept being offered the invitation. I watched how the women were all engaging, and I guess it allowed me to trust I was right and that I could participate. I felt the energy and connection of how everyone was showing up and honestly, I fell in love with the women and the group.

(The Collective) is filling a desire I didn’t really know I had (or at least not to the extent that I was consciously aware of). I feel grateful and fortunate that all the women who are members of the community are here and open to showing up as themselves in each moment and playing at their edges, wherever that may be in that moment.”

“In The Collective I found Sisterhood and support; I have found a place that I feel sharing is safe.”

“Thank you for curating this community and holding the vision for a space that feels like the truth of how women can and do show up for each other. It is something that I feel has been culturally lacking in my life and which feels deeply nourishing to me.”

“The more women have joined, the better it has become. I look forward to the community growing even more!”

“I was surprised by how much I love the women who make up The Collective!”

Join The Collective
for a year of growth, practice, and community

 

What is being offered in The Collective is not a quick-fix, but an opportunity for integration of concepts, experiences, practices, and relationships over time.

The container is broad, but deep, because it gives us the potential to work with everything. Rather than seeking peak experiences through doing a program, then going back into everyday life, not knowing how to integrate, and often having the work fall to waste, The Collective is about long-term integration — through community as well as coaching — that meets you right where you are and works with you in a moment to moment way, to make the shifts you want to make in your life over time.

This is why The Collective is a year-long commitment to practice and growth. Something magical & tangible happens when we make a commitment—we remove the energy leak of the recurring choice-point. When we commit, we put ourselves in the crucible of the container, and life arises to meet us there.

“(The Collective) is a very simple container that has space for everything. The women are AMAZING. It’s A LOT of value for the monetary investment — I got my money’s worth from the first call with Kendra and it has only expanded from there!”

“It’s a web of women like you’ve never met before. I have always been uncomfortable, uneasy, and unsure of women’s groups before. The Collective has changed that for me.”

Enrollment for The Collective is currently closed.

Be the first to know when enrollment opens for Spring 2023:

Everything Kendra teaches is gold.  This program will blow your mind in the best possible way.” —Jamie Jenson

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I don’t know anything about embodied wholeness?

That’s great! Kendra will offer you everything you need to take these practices on, one step at a time.

When are the live calls?

There are two 90-minute calls each month.

In The Collective, we are dedicated to following the natural rhythms of the seasons, the moon, etc…

As part of this, the live calls with Kendra are held on (or very close to) the New & Full Moons, rather than on an arbitrary recurring day or date.

Also, since we truly are a global community, we vary call times to accommodate women in different time zones.

Call times vary between morning Pacific Time (e.g. 9am or 10am) and early afternoon Pacific Time (e.g. 2pm or 3pm).

All calls are recorded and uploaded to your member site within 48 hours.

What if I can’t attend the live sessions?

All calls, practices, and teachings are recorded, and available on the Member Site.

The group calls are a place to receive regular live coaching with Kendra, and there are women in The Collective who get enormous value through the recordings & engaging in the Community Forum.

Is this only for female-born/cis-gender women?

Absolutely not. The Collective is a space for all womxn-identified humans including transgender.  I acknowledge that working with transgender women is not my area of expertise & I still have a lot of learning to do.  I am committed to that learning & to continuing to make The Collective a safe space for all womxn.

I have worked with many gay, bi & queer women in the areas of pleasure, purpose & power over the past 20 years. These teachings and practices are for all of us!

Is this a group only for young(er) women, old(er) women, mothers, single women, etc...?

The Collective is for all women. All walks of life. 

We have had women in their 20’s & in their 70’s.  Gay, straight & bi women.  Women from all over the USA, as well as women from Europe, South America & Australia.  There are many mothers in The Collective, as well as many single women, and women who have no desire to become mothers.

I'm happily married/partnered. Is this program still for me?

Absolutely!

One of the biggest challenges I have seen in the women I work with is not creating time for pleasure, personal practices, or to follow their true passions once they are in relationship.  Your relationship(s) will suffer if you do not engage in this work, and your relationship(s) will thrive if you do!

How do I know if The Collective is right for me?

You may want a place like The Collective in your life if…

  • You ‘hold’ so much for the people in your life, but don’t receive the ‘holding’ you need. You are ready to not have to do it all alone.
  • You may have felt like you didn’t fit in with other groups of women, but you’re ready to shift that. You want to cultivate deeper connections.
  • You believe your body holds wisdom even if you’re not sure how to access it (yet).
  • You have a wild (and possibly ‘unreasonable’) vision for your life and the world, and are ready to be fully supported in that vision.
  • You believe in honoring your natural cycles and seasonal rhythms (even if you haven’t always know how to).
  • You want to feel fully expressed as a woman and embody your feminine expression, but you’re not quite sure how.
  • You don’t know what your purpose is, you fear you might not have one, or you’re afraid to fully step into it because of the judgments of others or the changes it might require you to make in your life.
  • You want to feel empowered — to set boundaries, tap into your truth, and make confident decisions about your life.
  • You want to know how to feel true pleasure in your body.
  • Your life feels like it’s missing the vibrancy you deeply desire, and you’re not sure what’s blocking it. You want to feel on fire for life!
  • You welcome diversity, stand for equality and care about kindness. 
  • You’re ready & willing to let go of being ‘good’ in order to be YOU.

The Collective is a place for all womxn-identified humans, including transgender, from all walks of life.

We have had women in their 20s & in their 70s. Gay, straight & bi women. Married women. Single women. And women in ‘non-traditional’ relationships.

Women from all over the USA, as well as women from Europe, South America & Australia.

There are many mothers in The Collective, and women who have no desire to become mothers.

 

What if I'm 'not a group person'?

Here’s the thing — I’ve been working with groups for 20 years, and I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt that our deepest transformation occurs in community.  I also know that I could talk ‘til the cows come home about the power of community & it might all still go in one ear & out the other, so here is what the actual members of The Collective had to say.

How much time should I expect to commit to The Collective?

There are 2 live 90-minute group calls each month, held on (or near) the New & Full Moons. 

There is no obligation to attend every call, or to always be active within our vibrant global community-space. 

You can never ‘fall behind’ & there is no need to ‘catch up’. 

Many women remain longtime members of The Collective while periodically stepping away to travel or focus on other pieces of life, but the only women I have seen not get what they want out of The Collective are those that have not made space & time for the calls or the community. 

This is not a space to ‘should’ yourself about the time & space you have available in your life; this is simply a call to be honest with yourself – and if you aren’t able to make the time, please don’t join The Collective.

One of the reasons there is a year-long commitment in The Collective, is because real community takes time.  Real community means being seen & known.  Real community means showing up for each other.  Real community means we don’t always agree, but our love isn’t dependent on our agreement.  Real community requires attention.  Real community is knowing each other over time.  Real community celebrates each other’s joys.  Real community holds each other through challenges.  Real community means you see my magic…and my warts!

I already feel overwhelmed. I’m not sure I need another thing ‘to do’...

Then, my love, you definitely need The Collective.

This is a space to hold YOU.

About Kendra Cunov

Founder of The Collective: A Global Web of Women Devoted to Embodied Wholeness, Kendra Cunov has been studying, facilitating, and practicing authentic relating, embodiment practices and deep intimacy work for over fifteen years.

Kendra has worked with thousands of men, women and couples in the areas of embodiment, intimacy, communication and full self-expression. She co-founded Authentic World and Fierce Grace, as well as The Embodied Relationship Training Salon (with John Wineland), and pioneered some of the most cutting edge relational work on the planet.

She works with organizations and leaders, as well as men, women and couples, who know that embodied presence, truth, connection and integrity are our truest access points to success – in business and in love.

 

“In this community there are others who see and honour me and what my potential is sometimes more than I do. I am both held in how I am feeling and experiencing things now and invited into a new experience and exploration at the same time. This level of trust in the truth of my ‘ANDs’ by others feels like I am being offered trust/knowing in my capacity and ability to move into even greater awareness than I sometimes can hold by myself.

“If you looking for an amazing group of women, whole heartedly committed to a path of pleasure, embodiment, and authenticity…The Collective is for you.”

“The only challenges I have had are welcome (?) challenges. Where my idea of myself has been challenged and where my ego is raging against me in reference to some idea or inquiry. These are the best type of challenges and despite how they sometimes feel, are exactly what I am looking for and am grateful for receiving – they mean something important has been keyed on. What has supported me is knowing there is space and time to be with them and no requirement to fix them or even to speak to them. I’ve noticed I’ve been able to give myself more permission to sit with things and not share immediately (as compared to in the past) and I feel this is because of the energy and container that is created in the Collective. The genuine flow of how people show up really supports this.”

“I get a lot out of listening to the older recordings, when others share I almost always have an AHA moment.” — LS, new member

“{What I love most about The Collective is} The women!!! 🙂 And the space that’s created for us to be as we are. The words that come to mind is that we get to be real, like REALLY real and I get this sense that whatever I’m experiencing is valid. What I’m experiencing may or may not be validated but I am valid. There is space for me to have and share whatever I am experiencing. And it feels mundanely sacred.

Limited spots available in order to maintain group intimacy.

Still have questions? Email us at info@kendracunov.com

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