To embody pleasure, live your purpose, and know your power is a revolutionary act.
50% Off Vault Sale! February 4 – 14, 2026
For centuries, if a woman deviated from societal norms around female pleasure, purpose, and power — she was silenced.
The truth of this lives in our conscious memory, as well as our body-memory — which is passed down through generations.
It’s no wonder…
- We don’t feel safe to authentically feel and express our pleasure for fear of the way people will respond to us.
- We’re unsure of what our purpose is, or afraid of the judgment that might come from others if we fully step into it.
- We shy away from our power because power has been wielded for centuries in such threatening and destructive ways.
We think staying small keeps us safe.
But that’s not true.
The truth is… engaging with pleasure, purpose & power — consciously & through our bodies — is directly responsible for our sense of safety, meaning, fulfillment, and joy in life.
The truth is… Pleasure, purpose and power are the three areas of our lives that are most crucial for the full expression of our essence in the world.
The truth is… Pleasure, purpose & power are not luxuries to be dabbled in by those with the privilege of enough free time, money & resources.
The truth is… In order for humans to have any chance of changing the world for the better, women must become fiercely devoted to pleasure, purpose & power — in a living, breathing way.
When these channels are flowing freely, they guide us as whole beings on the earth — creating happier people, healthier families, and better societies for us all.
Embrace & embody the full spectrum of what it means to walk through the world as a woman — in every area of your life
Pleasure. Purpose. Power will revolutionize every area of your life
Home
Career
Connection to Self
Friendships
Family
Romantic
Community
Spirituality
Health
“There are many systems built against us as women, but our lives don’t need to be determined by the internal and external circumstances these systems create.”
— Kendra Cunov
I am a woman who used to believe I didn’t belong in groups of women.
I never felt ‘feminine enough.’ But, at the same time, I was scared of being ‘too feminine’ & not being taken seriously. I laughed too loud, I talked too much, I ate all the wrong foods, and putting on lipstick gave me panic attacks!
For years, I felt caught in a tug-of-war…
- I craved attention, and was afraid of attention because it didn’t feel safe.
- I knew I had big things to offer the world, and felt scared that others might judge me for my grand ambitions.
- I loved the quiet, simple life AND the wild all-night underground dance scene in San Francisco.
- Was I ‘masculine’ or ‘feminine’?
- Was I too purpose-driven, or not enough?
- Should I be self-reliant or ask for support?
I wanted all of it, but I thought I had to choose.
I lived too many years thinking I was the wrong kind of person and the wrong kind of woman.
And over the past 20 years, I’ve worked with countless women who’ve been held back by some version of these same unconscious beliefs – that only certain parts of you are acceptable in order to fit in – which leads to never feeling like you fully belong anywhere.
In Pleasure. Purpose. Power. you will…
- Discover how pleasure lives in, and moves through, your body — and how to unlock your access to it.
- Uncover and learn how to live your purpose every day — regardless of the circumstances you find yourself in.
- Experience the true power that resides within you — and release blocks you may have to expressing that power.
- Step into your purpose in a way that feels authentic, grounded, and powerful.
- Detangle the knots of cultural norms and narratives around what is and isn’t acceptable when it comes to pleasure, purpose, and power as a woman.
- Learn how embodying pleasure, purpose and power in simple & practical ways allows you to experience a deeper sense of meaning, joy and fulfillment in your day-to-day life.
- Gain a felt-sense of what true pleasure is — distinct from the junk-food options sold to us by advertising and porn.
- Get back in the director’s seat of your life and learn how to move through the world in a powerful way, making confident choices so you never second-guess yourself again.
- Create practices for experiencing pleasure in your day-to-day life — that feel both expansive, as well as safe and accessible.
- Explore embodied power in a way that is truly connected to the betterment of all.
- Experience a space where it is truly welcome to shine as brightly as you do!
Get paradigm-shifting insights into five distinct areas of learning, growth, and practice that will change your life forever
Intention-Setting & Visioning
Pleasure
Purpose
Power
Completion & Celebration
“If I could only have one life coach in my back pocket for the rest of my life it would be Kendra!
She has this amazing gift of being both a neutral mirror and the warmest nurturing energy I’ve ever experienced — a magical combo that fosters deep transformation while being trauma sensitive (which was important for me.)
The depth of her wisdom and her SEEING is something I haven’t experienced often in my life – and this allowed me to feel truly met and championed in my range and in my power.” —Nadia Munla
Pleasure is the beating heart of life.
We live in a culture that conflates pleasure with sex, and has led us to believe that both are sinful and cannot be trusted.
This incredibly narrow definition stops us from seeing the truth: That the energy of pleasure is the same energy that creates the cosmos, turns the planets, and from which all life on earth arises. When we turn away from pleasure, we lose touch with our life force. When we lose touch with our life force, we lose connection with the very reason we are here.
In this module, you will not only learn & understand, but practice & deeply embody your True Pleasure in guided & safe ways. The Pleasure module includes 1 teaching session, plus 7 guided practice sessions.
Artwork by Tina Maria Elena
Purpose is who we are, while we’re doing whatever we do.
We’ve been taught that purpose is what we do.
We misunderstand purpose to be something we’re exceptionally gifted at or something that has a tangible outcome in the world. As a result, we get stuck trying to figure it out, silently judging ourselves for having no purpose at all.
But the truth is: our purpose is who we are, not what we do. Our purpose is dependent on nothing, and we can devote ourselves to living our purpose, no matter the circumstances.
In this module, you will get in touch with the Purpose that wants to live through you, as well as how to bring this Purpose more fully into your life. The Purpose module includes 1 teaching session, plus 3 guided practice sessions.
Power is the natural by-product of connecting with life force & aligning with our deeper purpose.
There’s a social pressure to be powerful as a modern woman, but only the right amount of powerful.
If we’re too powerful, we’ll be crucified. On top of that, history has repeatedly given us bad role models of power, and as a result, we hold back our potential—to the detriment of our lives and the world around us. But power is not what we’ve been led to think it is. When we practice in the realms of pleasure and purpose, we are organically led into our true power. And True Power benefits all.
In this module, you will experience your own Power in a way that benefits all, and that allows you to create more of the world you truly know is possible. The Power module includes 1 teaching session, plus 3 guided practice sessions.
Artwork by Tina Maria Elena
50% Off Vault Sale! February 4 – 14, 2026
“Kendra has a rare ability to guide practices in a way that puts me so in touch with myself and transcends any computer screen.”
— Lauren Sanderson
“These practice sessions have helped me connect to deeper parts of myself, my spirit, my knowing, and my truth.
Emotions and energy move and in that process, I’ve received clear vision and direction from my higher self.
I always leave refreshed, clearer, and more joyful than how I began.”
— Dahlia J.
Beyond diving deep into pleasure, purpose and power, here’s what else we’ll cover:
Untangle Cultural Misconceptions
Humans are social creatures, which means we all buy into cultural and sub-cultural narratives that aren’t authentic to us. Our community, family & place-based cultures have penetrated our psyche with many misconceptions about pleasure, purpose and power, that aren’t true for us as individuals, and this misalignment causes us confusion and distress. In this program we will step outside this matrix in order to create more choice in our lives.
Learn to Hold Paradox
There’s an inner revolt that happens when life asks us to hold multiple and seemingly-opposing ideas and experiences at the same time. This thread flows through much of the unhappiness and discontentment I see in the women I work with. The capacity to hold our personal paradoxes and the paradoxes of life creates soul-freedom.
Develop Range & Authenticity
What does it mean to be authentic and how do we even begin expressing our authentic selves in the world? Learn how the narratives you’ve adopted about yourself are not always true. We have so much more choice and power when we open ourselves up, not just to who and what we think we are—but also to who and what we think we aren’t.
Embody Trust
Many women struggle with trust—whether it’s within themselves, their relationships, towards one another, or out in the world. It’s a huge area with many nuances, but all trust begins with self-trust. Through developing deep, deep, deep self-trust we will build our capacity to trust — which is fundamental to opening up the channels of pleasure, purpose and power in our bodies and in our lives.
Uncover Deep Bodily Truths
Knowing our deepest truth is often very simple, but also incredibly tricky. Most of the time we already know what’s true for us. The problem is, we put buffers between ourselves and our direct experience of our truth. Explore all the reasons why we do this, and learn how to access your deepest truths at any moment.
Connect to Source
Alan Watts said “You didn’t come into this world. You came out of it, like a wave from the ocean. You are not a stranger here.” When we remember that we are of this world, and truly not a stranger to it, we tap into an infinite energetic resource & become connected to boundless creativity. Learning to tap into this source is essential for developing trust and opening up the channels of pleasure, purpose and power in our lives. Learn how to touch, honor, and connect with the ever-present and eternal source within you to create a more powerful, meaningful, fulfilling life.
50% Off Vault Sale! February 4 – 14, 2026
This program is for you if…
- You want to free yourself from the chronic negative thoughts in your life in your workplace, relationship, or family.
- You think (or are afraid that) pleasure, purpose and power are things that are either given to you, or not given to you.
- You don’t feel pleasure in your life, or you’re afraid you feel too much pleasure.
- You want to feel fully expressed as a woman and embody your feminine expression, but you’re not quite sure how.
- You’re afraid you can’t be a ‘feminine’ woman — while also living your purpose.
- You don’t know what your purpose is, you fear you might not have one, or you’re afraid to fully step into it because of the judgments of others or the changes it might require you to make in your life.
- You don’t feel empowered — to set boundaries, tap into your truth, and make confident decisions about your life.
- You’re afraid that accessing your ‘power’ means dominating others.
- You don’t know how to feel true pleasure in your body. You think it needs to look or feel a certain way and that it’s only available through intimacy with others.
- Your life feels like it’s missing the vibrancy you deeply desire, and you’re not sure what’s blocking it. You want to feel on fire for life!
- You’re not sure how to actualize your purpose in the world. It feels aligned on a high level, but the vehicle for it in your day-to-day life is lacking.
- You’re afraid that this is ‘as good as it gets’.
- You’re afraid of dying with so much left unactualized, or unexpressed, within you.
50% Off Vault Sale! February 4 – 14, 2026
This program is 20 years of training, research, study, teaching, and personal practice distilled down to 12 weeks of the essential lessons and practices you need to walk as a whole woman in the modern world.
What’s included in Pleasure. Purpose. Power.?
- 5 Teaching Modules. Get paradigm-shifting insights into five distinct areas of learning, growth and practice that will change your life forever.
- Intention-Setting & Visioning. Set up the right container for your personal transformation. Get clear on where you’re at and where you want to go.
- Pleasure. Experience pleasure as a birthright—through immersive guided practices, you’ll rediscover intimacy with your body, renew self-trust, and infuse your daily life with joy. This module features 7 transformative practice journeys that invite you into embodied, sustainable pleasure.
- Purpose. Uncover and claim the deeper Purpose that wants to move through you. Through teaching and experiential practices, you’ll step into how to bring this Purpose more fully into your life. The Purpose module includes 1 teaching session, plus 3 guided practice sessions.
- Power. You will experience your own Power in a way that benefits all, and that allows you to create more of the world you truly know is possible. The Power module includes 1 teaching session, plus 3 guided practice sessions.
- Completion & Celebration. True transformation isn’t just what we achieve, it’s what we integrate. This closing module immerses you in celebration, self-acknowledgment, and rituals of completion so that every breakthrough becomes part of who you are.
- 13 Guided Practice Sessions with Kendra. Step beyond learning into living transformation. Each session is a powerful, guided experience—crafted personally by Kendra—to ensure every insight lands in your body and everyday life.
- Homework. Discover how these teachings apply to you & your relationships. Plus guidance on how to bring the teachings and practices into real life.
- Curated Resources for Deeper Mastery. Amplify your journey with handpicked books, videos, and articles that support a variety of learning styles and let you deepen your exploration whenever inspiration calls.
- Guidebook. Your companion for the self-study journey—an anchor to help you integrate, reflect, and embody the work within the course. It is designed to support your process in a spacious and intentional way, offering you practices, inquiries, and reminders to come home to yourself again and again.
- Member Site. Enjoy on-demand, lifetime access to every teaching and practice, so you can return to these resources as you evolve. This members-only site is your sanctuary for ongoing transformation.
- Lifetime Access. We know these teachings & practices are deep, and we want you to have as much time as you need to dive in fully & engage deeply.
- Time for Integration. Unlike fast-consumption courses, this journey is paced for deepening. Spacious integration periods are intentionally rooted in the curriculum—so each breakthrough becomes embodied wisdom for the rest of your life.
- Private Podcast Feed. Seamlessly integrate wisdom into your daily routine: listen to course content from anywhere, and revisit key modules whenever inspiration strikes.
Be the first to know when enrollment opens for Pleasure. Purpose. Power
50% Off Vault Sale! February 4 – 14, 2026
My story
When I was a little girl, I had a strong connection to pleasure through the sense of awe I felt for all of Life. I was blessed to grow up surrounded by nature: the sound of birds, the smells of the seasons changing, the beauty of abundant wildflowers in spring, the feel of the wind on my skin — these were my constant companions as a child. Unfortunately, the people where we lived weren’t safe. I saw how other young girl’s innocent displays of sensuality were commodified in inappropriate ways, so I developed a fear of pleasure and sexual expression. My mother also had a classically second wave feminist view of women and power, in that she very much embraced the idea of women being independent. While I value the strength she imparted on me, and see the value in being capable, she also imparted a defiant guardedness that left me defended and alone, not knowing how to ask for or receive support.
In my early 20’s I entered the world of exploratory sexuality and polarity teachings. Much of what I encountered expanded my world, but I also found limitations in the realm of The Feminine being taught by men. In this world I discovered I could let go and be adored, but I was also criticized for my strong opinions and clear sense of self as ‘unfeminine’.
I craved attention, and was afraid of attention; I knew I had big things to offer the world, and felt scared that others might judge me for my grand ambitions; I loved the quiet, simple life AND the wild all-night underground dance scene in San Francisco. I wanted all of it, but I thought I had to choose.
For years I felt caught in a tug-of-war, trying to determine: Was I ‘masculine’ or ‘feminine’? Was I too purpose-driven, or not enough? Where did my true power lie?
What I discovered through seeking and learning, through trial and error, through falling in love and having my heart broken, and ultimately through becoming a mother, the dissolution of my marriage, and losing everything I always thought I wanted — was that Pleasure, Purpose, and Power are within me, can never be taken from me, and are parts of me that are dependent on no external permission.
This is what I want to offer you: True Freedom.
“Embodiment practices felt new and out of my comfort zone when I started working with Kendra. I judged myself when I felt nothing and flat, or when I was angry for not ‘knowing what to do or feel’. And, I stuck with it. I showed up. For years. I still show up.
To be guided and led by Kendra though this process is a gift. Her ability to hold a safe space where all is welcome and encouraged, consistently and over time is exactly the type of space I need to shed my no longer needed beliefs and judgments a little bit more each time. To be loved for all of it and any of it is what my body needs to relax into what it has to teach me.
There are moments ‘in real life’ when I notice something in my body is clenched or closed. I relax my jaw, or slow the pace of my walking, or turn around to see what is behind me, in those moments Kendra is there with me — her embodiment practices making my every day more beautiful.”
— Sarah Altman
“When I started working with Kendra and experiencing her embodiment practices I felt awkward and filled with rage nearly every time we started. I was angry that I was being asked to listen to and follow my body’s rhythm when nearly my whole life I had been led to believe, and ‘practicing’, that ignoring my body in favor of my mind was the only way to create what I wanted.
Despite this, I trusted my longing for something deeper — a deeper relationship with myself, a deeper relationship with my body, and a deeper relationship with my husband — and I inherently trusted Kendra and her guidance.
Everything in my life has been transforming in the last 5 years as a result of Kendra’s embodiment practices and what they offer me. I now fully trust myself and my body’s wisdom. I know in my bones that my body is trustworthy and accurate. And, as I navigate life-changing surgeries as a newly aware BRCA2 carrier, I feel so grateful for the relationship I have created with my exceptionally amazing body.
I don’t know where I would be right now without these practices, but what I am certain of is that they have been a large part of why I am able to be here, facing what I am, in a deeply rooted, deeply connected, deeply compassionate way. I am so grateful for how embodiment practice has changed me, and quite possibly how it has saved my life.”
— Rae Haddow
“Everything Kendra teaches is gold. This program will blow your mind in the best possible way.” —Jamie Jenson
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this only for cis-gender, straight women?
Absolutely not. Pleasure. Purpose. Power is a space for all womxn-identified humans including transgender. I acknowledge that working with transgender women is not my area of expertise & I still have a lot of learning to do. I am committed to that learning & to continuing to make Pleasure.Purpose.Power a safe space for all womxn.
I have worked with many gay, bi & queer women in the areas of pleasure, purpose & power over the past 20 years. These teachings & practices are for all of us!
How many hours/week do I need to set aside to participate in Pleasure. Purpose. Power?
We recommend 1-3 hours/week in order to listen to the teaching classes & create time for your own personal practice time.
I’m gay/straight/bi/queer/trans — is Pleasure.Purpose.Power right for me?
I have worked with many gay, bi & queer women in the areas of pleasure, purpose & power over the past 20 years.
The teachings & practices in this program are applicable to all sexual orientations.
How long will I have access to the course material?
We want to make sure you have plenty of time to watch, listen & return to these teachings & practices over time. This is why you’ll have lifetime access to the course materials.
I’m happily married/partnered. Is this program still for me?
Absolutely!
One of the biggest challenges I have seen in the women I work with is not creating time for pleasure, personal practices, or to follow their true passions once they are in relationship. Your relationship(s) will suffer if you do not engage in this work, and your relationship(s) will thrive if you do!
Is Pleasure.Purpose.Power only for young(er) women, old(er) women, mothers, single women, etc...?
Pleasure.Purpose.Power is for all women. All ages. All walks of life.
We have had women in their 20’s & in their 70’s. Gay, straight & bi women. Women from all over the USA, as well as women from Europe, South America & Australia. There are many mothers engaged in this work, as well as many single women, and women who have no desire to become mothers.
What if I don’t know anything about ‘embodiment’ — can I still participate in this program?
That’s great! Kendra will offer you everything you need to take these practices on, one step at a time.
Is this only for female-born women?
Absolutely not. Pleasure.Purpose.Power and The Collective is a space for all womxn-identified humans including transgender. I acknowledge that working with transgender women is not my area of expertise & I still have a lot of learning to do. I am committed to that learning & to continuing to make Pleasure.Purpose.Power a safe space for all womxn.
Is all of the content available at once?
Yes! And you’ll have lifetime access to the material so you’ll be able to return to these teachings & practices over time.
About Kendra Cunov
Founder of The Collective: A Global Web of Women Devoted to Embodied Wholeness, Kendra Cunov has been studying, facilitating, and practicing authentic relating, embodiment practices and deep intimacy work for over fifteen years.
Kendra has worked with thousands of men, women and couples in the areas of embodiment, intimacy, communication and full self-expression. She co-founded Authentic World and Fierce Grace, as well as The Embodied Relationship Training Salon (with John Wineland), and pioneered some of the most cutting edge relational work on the planet.
She works with organizations and leaders, as well as men, women and couples, who know that embodied presence, truth, connection and integrity are our truest access points to success – in business and in love.
50% Off Vault Sale! February 4 – 14, 2026
