by Kendra Cunov | Mar 8, 2019 | Life Advice, Pleasure, Purpose, Power, Relationships
When it comes to wants, needs, and desires, there is a plethora of work on everything from how we discover what we want, to how we communicate our desires in a way that invites someone to want to fulfill them, to how we meet our own needs (thank you very much!). The...
by Kendra Cunov | Feb 28, 2019 | Life Advice, Relationships
All human beings complain and this is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact sometimes, especially in the personal growth world, we try to avoid complaining because we think we need to “take responsibility,” and we end up pretzeling ourselves around the complaint that...
by Kendra Cunov | May 8, 2018 | Life Advice, Pleasure, Purpose, Power, Relationships
With all the talk of legacy work and leaving a (powerful) legacy – what may actually be the most important piece is your relational legacy. We all leave a relational legacy, whether we intend to or not. In every moment of relating, we create impact or legacy. ...
by Kendra Cunov | May 1, 2018 | Life Advice, Relationships
Most people acknowledge that space is a really important piece of the long-term health intimate relationships. Intellectually we get it, I haven’t been to a wedding in the last twenty years where someone didn’t read the Kahlil Gibran poem with the line, “let there be...
by Kendra Cunov | Apr 30, 2018 | Life Advice, Relationships
Most of us know that space is a necessary part of a relationship and that allowing our partner to take space is right and healthy. We know that we all need alone time from our partners and friends, that it’s a good thing to do. But many of us know this in the same way...
by Kendra Cunov | Jan 22, 2018 | Life Advice, Relationships
Today I overheard a man talking on the phone, saying “I don’t want you to feel unappreciated for everything you do,” and here’s what I wanted to tell him: Instead of telling people how you don’t want them to feel, treat them in ways that...